One Family Saving Another

Our story begins with Yosef Kabiljo, who was Jewish and the business partner of Mustafa Hardaga, a Muslim. The two were also good friends.

Never forced to live in ghettos, the Jews of Yugoslavia, mostly descendants of those expelled from Spain in 1492, were treated better than in most of Western Europe. By the 1930s there were about 12,000 Jews in Sarajevo and another 2,000 in other cities. Though the Jewish population would be decimated during the Holocaust, with 10,000 murdered by Croatian pro-Nazi fascists, some Muslims tried to protect their Jewish neighbors.

After the Kabiljo family’s house was destroyed in a Nazi bombing raid, the Hardagas invited them to live in their home, despite the terrible risk to their own lives.

They welcomed them by generously declaring, “You are our brother and your children are like our children. Feel at home and whatever we own is yours.”

One day the Gestapo showed up at the Hardaga’s door to check their documents. Yosef Kabiljo, his wife and daughter were hiding behind items of clothing inside a large closet. Though they were right under the noses of the Nazis, miraculously they were not discovered.

The Kabiljo family remained hidden by the Hardagas until they could relocate to the Bosnian city of Mostar, which was under Italian rule and a safer place for Jews.

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Yosef Kabiljo, who remained behind to liquidate his business, was eventually caught by the Nazis. Fortunately, thanks to a timely heavy snowfall, the prisoners could not be transferred from Sarajevo to the infamous Jasenovac camp near Zagreb. There the Croatians were consistently killing Serbs, Jews and Roma. Now spared from that terrible fate, the prisoners were forced, with chained legs, to clear the heavy snow from the roads.

One day Yosef Kabiljo noticed Zejneba Hardaga standing at a street corner, watching him with tears in her eyes. Despite the danger to herself, the kind-hearted woman brought food to him and the other prisoners.

Yosef managed to escape and fled to sanctuary in the Hardaga home.

Unfortunately the Nazis discovered that the Hardagas were helping Jews. Ahmed Sadik, Zejneba’s father who had forged identification documents for Jewish families, was executed by the Nazis.

The Kabiljo family managed to survive the war and eventually settled in Jerusalem. There they requested that Yad Vashem recognize the Hardaga family and Ahmed Sadik as Righteous Among the Nations and a tree was planted in honor of their bravery.

After Mustafa Hardaga passed away in the 1960s, the Kabiljos still kept in contact with Zejneba and her daughter Sara.

The years went by until 1992, when a vicious war broke out in Bosnia whose population was a mixture of Muslim Bosniaks, Orthodox Serbs and Roman Catholic Croats. When Yugoslavia split apart, racial and religious divisions that had been controlled under communism finally erupted. The Bosnian War, with its massacres, barbarity and genocide, became the most vicious conflict in Europe since World War Two.

From 1992 to 1994, almost three million people were forced to flee from their homes, more than 100,000 were killed and thousands of women were assaulted. Serbian troops surrounded Sarajevo where snipers targeted anyone who tried to leave their homes.

One suffering family included that of Zejneba Hardaga, her daughter Sara Pecanac, son-in-law Branimir and nine-year-old granddaughter Sacha. Seeing their neighbors shot and dying in the street outside their home, they lived in fear that they might be next.

With no food available, the family managed to survive for weeks on soup made from grass they picked in a local park. They needed to take shelter in the basement of their besieged home.

Desperate, frightened and stranded, they lost hope that they might survive this terrible ordeal. Then their miracle occurred: a message arrived from Israel.

In Jerusalem, their old friends the Kabiljos were anxiously listening to the news about Bosnia, wondering if the Hardaga family might still be alive. They contacted an Israeli journalist leaving for Bosnia to cover the war. He conveyed the message to an organization in Sarajevo that the Kabiljo family was searching for Zejneba. They were relieved to discover that Zejneba, her daughter Sara, and two other family members were still alive. Sara Pecanac was amazed to hear the Kabiljos were trying to help them, as she had not known the story of her family’s heroism until 1984.

“My dad had died and my mother didn’t talk about it very much,” she said of the family’s bravery. However, her mother did tell her, “You can’t control how rich you will be, or how smart or successful you will be. But you can control how good you will be.”

The Kabiljos contacted Yad Vashem for help in rescuing the family who had saved them. Yet when Yad Vashem requested permission of the president of Bosnia, he refused to allow the family to leave the war-torn country. However, the Kabiljos did not give up on the friends they regarded as their family. They persisted in taking their case all the way to Yitzhak Rabin, then the Prime Minister of Israel.

Eventually, in early 1994, Sara Pecanac, her husband, daughter and mother Zejneba joined three hundred other refugees on a convoy of six buses leaving the ruined city of Sarajevo. Given their choice of destinations, the family immediately chose Jerusalem.

“Imagine that you are in such a state and need help and you get it from the same family that your family saved fifty years earlier,” said Sara Pecanac. The deep bond connecting the two families may have inspired Sara and her family to convert to Judaism. “It is only natural that I should want to become Jewish. It is an honor for me to belong to these people,” she explained. Appropriately, Sara now works for Yad Vashem.

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