Dreaming of a breathtaking destination wedding but hesitant about the complexities of international travel? You don’t have to jet across the globe to experience an unforgettable wedding in an exotic setting. The U.S. is home to some of the most stunning wedding venues, from charming coastal retreats to luxurious resorts with world-class amenities. One such gem is the Kona Kai Resort in San Diego, an intimate and picturesque location that provides the beauty, adventure, and romance of a far-off destination—without the hassle of passports or long-haul flights.

If you are dreaming of a wedding that’s as intimate and unique as your love story? Then say “I do” to the micro-wedding! This trend is taking the wedding world by storm, trading massive guest lists for curated experiences and focusing on quality time with your nearest and dearest. Micro-weddings are all about stripping away the fuss and extravagance of traditional weddings and amplifying the fun, connection, and personalization. It’s about crafting a celebration that truly reflects you as a couple, not just ticking boxes off a check list. Furry Friends Welcome!
Why Micro-Weddings are So Hot Right Now:
A micro-wedding is a smaller, more intimate affair, typically hosting 20 to 50 guests. These weddings allow couples to focus on meaningful experiences, luxurious details, and personalized touches without the overwhelming costs and stress of a grand-scale event. Ideal for couples who value unique settings, memorable moments, and curated experiences over massive guest lists.
- Intimacy Amplified: With a smaller guest list, you can truly connect with each and every person present, fostering a warm and unforgettable atmosphere.
- Budget-Friendly Bliss: Micro-weddings often allow couples to allocate their budget towards truly special touches, like a gourmet meal, top-shelf drinks, or unique entertainment, without breaking the bank.
- Stress-Free Planning: A smaller scale usually means less logistical headaches and more time to savor the planning process (and enjoy your engagement!).
- Limitless Creativity: Micro-weddings offer a blank canvas for your creativity. Design a truly unique celebration that reflects your personalities and passions.

San Diego & Kona Kai: The Perfect Micro-Wedding Duo.
Sun-kissed beaches, stunning sunsets, and a vibrant city vibe – San Diego sets the stage for an unforgettable micro-wedding. And nestled on Shelter Island, a tranquil oasis just minutes from downtown, lies the Kona Kai Resort & Spa – your dream micro-wedding destination.
Kona Kai: Where Luxury Meets Laid-Back Charm:
Tucked away on Shelter Island, Kona Kai Resort is a haven of coastal elegance, offering a seamless blend of tranquility, luxury, and adventure. Picture exchanging vows against the backdrop of the sparkling San Diego Bay, or with stunning Marina views, and the gentle ocean breezes rustling through the palms. Whether you choose a waterfront terrace, a lush garden, or an elegant ballroom, each venue at Kona Kai is designed to create an unforgettable atmosphere for your special day. The resort’s sophisticated architecture and breathtaking marina views set the perfect scene for an intimate yet grand wedding experience, while their expert wedding coordinators and staff handle every detail so you can soak in every magical moment.
Beyond the “I Do’s”: San Diego Adventures Await:
San Diego is a playground for adventure, offering endless pre- and post-wedding activities for you and your guests:
- Romantic Sunset Sail: Picture this: a private catamaran cruise to Coronado Island, complete with gourmet dining and champagne toasts under a starlit sky. Pure magic!
- Wine Tasting Delights: Explore the region’s award-winning wineries and savor the rich flavors of Southern California.
- Thrills & Chills: From surfing lessons to kayaking adventures, San Diego has something for every thrill-seeker.
- Culture & History: Dive into the city’s vibrant arts scene, explore historic landmarks, or explore charming neighborhoods.
Pre-Wedding – Bridal Party Adventures.
Fun Activities for Couples and Guests. The idea behind the micro-wedding is that your wedding weekend doesn’t have to be limited to a single day of celebration. San Diego offers an array of activities that elevate your micro-wedding into a full-fledged luxury celebration. San Diego is a playground for pre-wedding festivities, offering a diverse range of activities for both the bride’s and groom’s crews, as well as fun things to do together.
For the Bride Tribe:
- Pampering Perfection: Indulge in a luxurious spa day at the Kona Kai’s SpaTerre. Think massages, facials, and manicures for ultimate relaxation.
- Champagne Cruises & Coastal Dreams: Charter a private yacht for a sunset cruise around San Diego Bay, complete with bubbly and your favorite tunes. Dance the afternoon away with your best friends.
- Beach Bonfire & Bites: Gather on the beach for a bonfire, complete with s’mores, snacks, and stories under the stars. A laid-back and memorable way to celebrate with your closest friends.
For the Groom Crew:
- Brewery Hopping: San Diego is a craft beer paradise! Explore the city’s diverse breweries, sample local brews, and enjoy some friendly competition.
- Golf Getaway: Tee off at one of San Diego’s scenic golf courses, enjoying stunning views and some quality time with the guys.
- Sportfishing Adventure: The groom and his crew can enjoy a private deep-sea fishing excursion.
Together as One: Combining the fun.
- Balboa Park Exploration: Explore the museums, gardens, and cultural attractions of Balboa Park. A fun and educational way to spend time together.
- Gaslamp Quarter Fun: Experience the vibrant nightlife and entertainment of the Gaslamp Quarter. Enjoy dinner, drinks, and live music in this historic district.
- Sunset Cliffs Hike: Witness a breathtaking sunset over the Pacific Ocean from the stunning cliffs of Sunset Cliffs Natural Park. A romantic and memorable experience for the entire group.
- Wine Tasting Excursions. Explore the region’s renowned wineries, indulging in local flavors and boutique tastings.
- Craving waterfront bliss? Savor stunning Point Loma views while sipping handcrafted cocktails and indulging in delicious California-inspired light bites at the Kona Kai’s Tiki or Paloma Bar.
Beyond the “I Do’s”: Kona Kai Delights:
Besides its stunning waterfront location and luxurious accommodations, Kona Kai offers a wide array of amenities to enhance your stay:
- Private Beach: Sink your toes into the soft sand and soak up the sun on Kona Kai’s private beach. Perfect for relaxation and enjoying the ocean breeze.
- Sparkling Pools: Take a refreshing dip in one of the resort’s multiple pools, including a family-friendly pool and an adults-only oasis.
- Watersports Galore: From paddleboarding and kayaking to jet skiing and boat rentals, there’s no shortage of ways to enjoy the water.
- Delicious Dining: Indulge in delectable cuisine at one of Kona Kai’s on-site restaurants, offering fresh seafood, flavorful steaks, and stunning waterfront views.
The Kona Kai Difference for a stress-free wedding experience.
What truly sets Kona Kai Resort apart is its dedication to creating personalized, stress-free wedding experiences. With a dedicated wedding coordinator, couples receive expert guidance in curating every aspect of their wedding, from selecting décor to choosing top-tier local vendors like Patty’s Linens, ensuring every detail is flawlessly executed.

Micro-weddings at Kona Kai Resort offer the best of both worlds—intimate luxury and big adventure. Whether you’re drawn to the idea of an intimate seaside ceremony, a weekend of fun-filled excursions, or a serene post-wedding escape, this San Diego gem is the ultimate destination to say “I do.”
Aside from an amazing destination for your wedding, anniversary or any celebration, Kona Kai Resort is the ultimate summer escape – (read more about fun for the family here – ) offering sun-soaked days by the adults-only pool, private cabanas, and panoramic views of the San Diego Bay. Whether you’re savoring fresh coastal cuisine, indulging in spa treatments, or setting sail from the marina, it’s the perfect blend of relaxation and adventure beyond just weddings.
Ready to plan your dream San Diego micro-wedding at Kona Kai?
Contact Dream Destination Travel today! We’ll help you craft a celebration that’s as unique and special as you are! [email protected]